Overstimulation

Overstimulation

If you are like me, the day after Christmas is one of recovery and hopefully rest. For children and adults with a background of trauma, Christmas day can be one of sensory overload. Going to at least one long Christmas party can be so overstimulating that discomfort...
The Holidays Part 3

The Holidays Part 3

We have all heard the phrase, “Everything in moderation.” How can we apply such a phrase to the holidays? First of all, if you are a survivor of trauma and struggle with addiction, this time of year may be particularly difficult for you, especially if you have not...
The Holidays Part 2

The Holidays Part 2

Last week I spoke about the ups and downs of the holidays. Today I would like to touch on the subject of joy. Many believe that happiness and joy are the same thing, yet they actually are quite different.  Happiness is more of a temporary feeling based on your...
The Holidays

The Holidays

Getting through the holidays can be extremely difficult for a person with PTSD, even a child who is in recovery. Christmas is traditionally a happy time for children, but for a traumatized child it can be stressful.  Why? During the holidays we are expected to...
Mentors

Mentors

There is great value in mentorship for at risk children. My husband is involved in a program started by a church where he goes into a school once a week and mentors a young boy. Not only does this help the child, but it also brings joy and satisfaction to my husband....