Although research shows that a highly sensitive child has no greater risk for trauma than a child who is not, these children are at greater risk for developing PTSD. A highly sensitive child, for example, who experiences verbal abuse, may internalize what is said, leading to feelings of shame. It is very difficult for these children to express what they are feeling which can lead to psycho-somatic symptoms such as headaches or digestive issues.
This, of course, could happen to any child. It is just more difficult for a highly sensitive child to navigate and process trauma. What may be termed “a joke” or “normal” to any child, may be devastating to a highly sensitive one. These children feel, but it can be very difficult to put these feelings into words.
Yet these children are often gifted and have many wonderful attributes. One of them is empathy. While this sometimes can be difficult because of their ability to experience intense emotions, these children are extremely kind and caring to others. They are often the “behind the scenes” kids, not looking for attention, but being satisfied with any positive affirmation received. If highly sensitive children can learn to overcome and heal from possible trauma, embrace and welcome their emotions, and learn to enjoy helping others, they have a bright and successful future ahead of them.