Recovery

Recovery

In past blogs I have written a lot about coping strategies such as exercise, music, or journaling. But today I am going to offer suggestions to parents or caregivers on how best to help their children who are recovering from past trauma or abuse. Today there is so...
Guilt with Boundaries

Guilt with Boundaries

As my previous blog I wrote talked about rejection, this is expanding a bit on that, particularly when it comes to the subject of boundaries. Because of past rejection, most people feel guilty, ashamed, afraid, or anxious after setting a boundaries. I think the most...
Rejection

Rejection

Rejection is probably the most difficult process a child or even an adult survivor of trauma must heal from. I call rejection a process because it is more than just one feeling, it is a number of feelings such as shame, sadness, grief, and not being accepted. Once a...
Mental Illness

Mental Illness

There are many issues and even illnesses that can occur as a result if trauma. The one I wish to address today is mental illness. It may not surprise you that depression and anxiety can result from a child being traumatized, but even schizophrenia and bipolar disorder...
Bullying

Bullying

There has been a lot of talk about bullying in the past few years since “cyber-bullying” has been termed and is now added as a form of bullying. In reality, traditional bullying is still much more prevalent than its cyber counterpart. Globally, at least one third of...
Sleep

Sleep

We all know that sleep is essential to staying healthy. Yet for a child who has been traumatized, especially one whose trauma occurred at night, sleep can be seriously affected. Not only can the child have a difficult time getting to sleep and staying asleep, but they...